It is never over. There is always a third approach. It depends on how you see the world. It's obvious that if you look at the world as if everything is over and nothing can have done, everything tightens and get mixed up. If you can't find any approach facing your works, this doesn't mean everything is over. We just need to change our insight. We definitely think tightly and not smoothly judging the conditions. Sometimes slowing down and working wisely can solve the issue easily. Don't have bias facing the problems and don't be strict. Even sometimes the cause that we may think that everything is over is that we have high expectation from the life. Don't forget that the life acts exactly you treat it. No way, we should reduce our expectations from our lives because realistically the life can't afford whole of the things we expect the life should have.